Guilt, Shame, and the Survival of Death

In the weeks and months after March 6, 2015 — the day I signed before a witness the papers authorizing them to carry out the cremation which Mom had long since confided to me that she wanted — I rationalized that secret, heartless response. I propped it up with justification after justification as if I could somehow plaster over the ugliness of the thought with enough evidence to neutralize its sting and to redeem myself as her loving son.

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Fort Troff Boasts New Sport Jock Made By Under Armour, But Gay Sized

When Finally Given An Opportunity To Size For US Men, Fort Troff Downsizes Under Armour Jockstraps For Gay Customers (NSFW)

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Why Size Really Does Matter to Gay Men

An opinion piece on the billion-dollar mens underwear industry that is ignoring or shaming an entire segment of gay men for their size. Mens underwear sizes for brands aimed at the gay market stop at 36 inches, well below the national average waist size of 39.7 inches around. Big boys abound in the gay community, so why are our buns shunned by these fancy pants underwear makers?

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